Kitty denied



There was a time when electrical play was a hard limit for me, but since I trust Sir with every fiber of my being I was willing to try out this shock collar. I’m happy to report that it’s been such a great experience that I can’t imagine playing without it. Its great for obedience training, getting immediate results, or for when Sir just feels like being mean to me for no reason hehe.  

So heres what prompted this post- Now you can order a Premium Leather Shock Collar from The Discerning Specialist !!! Its true!

I’ll let you read the listing because he does a great job giving all the specs, and rational for the design. He also explains why its used on the back of the neck, how the prongs are modded for use on slutty girls, and why he chose the specific Dogtra IQ model.. so it’s worth taking a look at even if you’re not going to buy one right now because its designed so well, and has been tested thoroughly. (Theres a review fro the dogtra unit itself here)

I will be doing more posts talking about my personal experiences with the shock collar in later posts, but I just wanted to throw a few pics up and let you guys know its finally available to purchase! 

So check out the Discerning Specialist Gear Shop and get one so I’m not the only poor kitty thats suffering…. heheh

Side note.. as with all my collars, this one has a little bit different hardware than the listing because I demand gold and the extra strap keepers (I’m super spoiled by the Discerning Specialist and he lets me be picky about my hardware)… but you can choose between different types of metal, O rings, and you can have a locking buckle if you like silver. 

If you ask me, I think he should only offer silver hardware because I’ve claimed black and gold as my signature look, but apparently thats not fair and I dont get to make that decision, hehe (⁎˃ᆺ˂) 

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Buy your shock collar here: https://www.etsy.com/listing/513618127/premium-leather-shock-collar-bdsm?ref=hp_rf

Read the review of the Dogtra IQ shock unit here: http://www.discerningspecialist.com/bdsm-gear/electrical/30-dogtra-iq-plus-remote-collar

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Beware: Fernando Berlin stole $500 from me. 

As you guys know, I spend tons of my own money on custom bdsm gear, clothes, and fetish wear every year. I like to show off the gear I use in my everyday life and let people know who makes the best stuff so they can have as much fun as we do. I’m not sponsored by anyone, and I rarely even get a discount for promoting anything.  

I have a fantastic track record for sending traffic to the sites I talk about (just ask Fancy Steel and Discerning Specialist), so when I run into unpleasant vendors I find that the best revenge is simply to never mention them at all because I don’t want to send even one person there.

The majority of my experiences are positive, but I’ve had some run-ins and disasters in the past. Thankfully, when bad things happen Sir is always able to calm me down and help me deal with my frustration ..he’s definitely a “crazy girl whisperer” and has talked me down more times than I can remember- but thats a whole separate post ..but even he’s not going to be able to calm me down about this one so you guys are going to have to hear me vent.

Let me start off by saying I have 2 other pairs of Fernando Berlin boots, and a pair of custom gloves. I have never had any trouble with them other than having to wait 4 months to get them- which was annoying, but fine because they were custom.

Since I had a reasonable experience with them in the past, I decided last May to order a pair of knee high boots to go with my “slutty casual” look (as Sir calls it, hehe). Apparently, not every outfit looks appropriate with crotch high boots, so something a little more conservative would come in handy. 

I also ordered a pair of gloves because I loved the previous pair I bought and they are too big now because I’ve lost about 90 lbs since starting the blog.

Fernando Berlin makes custom boots, but the pair I ordered in May was off the rack. Since they were knee high boots I assumed they would not be as hard to get the fit right, and the measurements were almost exactly the same as mine so I didnt see the need to order custom. The gloves were off the rack as well.  Nothing was on sale and I spent over 500 dollars on the order. Making my total investment in this company to be nearly 2k at this point.

I order lots of things from overseas so I know that it can take a month or more for it to get here, and I’m generally pretty patient about it. So, when June came and went, and July came and went I wasn’t tooooooooo worried… Then August got here, and still no boots. I started sending messages to see what happened. I had to send 2 or 3 messages before getting an answer, but they eventually told me they sent the package.  

Finally, in September I got my boots and gloves and was disappointed with them because the (off the rack) boots were nowhere near the size listed on the site and the gloves were made with really poor quality leather. I have faux leather thats nicer than these were. They aren’t even in the same universe as the pair of custom gloves I ordered from them.

Needless to say, I immediately emailed them to arrange a return/refund and they agreed. I planned on returning the boots and ordering something custom at a later date. I had to spend almost 100 dollars on shipping because I needed to insure the package and make sure it was tracked, but thats ok because thats the price of admission in these situations.

I sent the items back literally the day after I received them and watched the tracking progress. I saw they were delivered on October 8th, so I contacted Fernando Berlin for confirmation and to prompt them to send my refund.

No response.

After 2 more emails I got short response from someone named “Ina” that told me they have the boots (no mention of the gloves) and wanted to know what else I would like to order.

I kindly explained that I wanted my refund as we agreed on (not an exchange), and sent a copy of my receipt and so they knew how much to send and where to send it. I said I would be ordering new boots soon, but I wanted my money back first (I was getting suspicious that they would not refund me at all at this point).

No response.  

After they got the boots and gloves they completely stopped responding to me, so  over the last 4 months I’ve tried contacting them via different email addresses, and responding to all previous communications including the weekly “sale” emails they still send me .. I’ve even contacted them on their Facebook page.

So, they took the boots back and kept my money. 

Normally, I would just contact my credit card company and explain the situation, and do a charge back but this whole process has taken soooooooo long that they pretty much just laughed at me. So I’m screwed and Fernando Berlin stole over 500 dollars from me not including the 100 bucks it cost to ship the items back.

So to sum it up:
- Off the rack boots are nowhere near the size listed
- Off the rack gloves are made with low quality leather
- Takes 4 months to get your order and likely will have to prompt them with an email to send it
- They rarely respond to emails, and especially wont respond if you are asking about something you already paid for
- Will steal your money when you return an item
- If you have a problem with the order, even your credit card company cant help you because Fernando Berlin takes so long to ship items and process returns that the time frame to file a dispute with the credit card company is long over

Consider yourself warned,  and feel free to send them a little hate mail and let them know that KittyDenied said they suck, (and not in a good way like she does hehe).

So, I will continue to wear the boots I have because they are hot, but every time I wear them I’ll be referencing this post and letting everyone know what happened. If by some miracle they refund my order I’ll let you guys know, but I highly doubt they are going to do that.

So now the search for another custom boot company begins.. if you guys know of any boots that would look hot on me, let me know!

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Just showing off my Premium Slim Utility Leather Wrist Cuffs from The Discerning Specialist Store.  ( ˘ ³˘)♥

I love these cuffs for so many reasons.. first of all, they’re actually slim for smaller wrists. I have purchased several sets of cuffs and even the “small” ones seem to be, “one size fits most… boys” and they always end up looking bulky.  

Don’t get me wrong- bulky bondage gear is sexy, but it gets old after awhile. I can’t wear regular cuffs all day without eventually getting annoyed by them.

These cuffs fit my 5.5″ wrists perfectly and the holes are close together to get a more precise fit. This means I can easily adjust and wear them over long gloves, and still get a tight fit. Thats important because we all know how much I love and need my gloves…

The velcro closure makes the straps stay in place and prevents that thing that happens where the strap splits when you’re doing lots of moving around. Thats my biggest complaint with most cuffs. 

The velcro also makes it easier for me to put them on by myself and get them nice and tight. Which is hard to do if youre wearing gloves, and trying to put your cuffs on by yourself so youre in uniform to serve Sir properly. 

The padding makes them soft (important for delicate kitties), but its not too much padding, so they remain low profile and sexy. To me, they feel and look like bracelets so Sir can keep me in them all day and even make me sleep in them without too much complaining on my end. 

Sir and I were curious to see if slimmer cuffs might make wrists more sore after  rough play (because theres less surface area to protect the wrists) but I don’t notice any difference. To be honest, I think they work better because they fit better. 

Mine didn’t come with locking buckles because I have special needs (i.e.: I demand everything to come in black and gold, hehe) .. but, if you like silver you can get locking buckles for these. Personally, I like mine without the locking buckles because they are even more low profile with the regular buckle.

Oh, and just to be clear- these cuffs are custom, so even if you have bigger wrists, anyone who likes the low profile design can get them. And you can choose between all sorts of hardware options. 

I’ve been testing these out for awhile (as you can see by the scuffs) and they have have survived lots of slutty tasks and rough sessions. I voluntarily put my cuffs and collar on most days just because I like to wear them, and I can easily spend the entire day in these slim cuffs without any problems. I would definitely recommend these slim cuffs to anyone that wants to spoil their kitty.

Get your slim cuffs here: https://www.etsy.com/listing/500124910/premium-slim-utility-leather-wrist-cuffs?ref=shop_home_active_2

Check out his site for BDSM gear reviews here: http://www.discerningspecialist.com

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